Children Learn What They Live
By Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph.D.

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
批評中長大的孩子,責難他人

If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
敵意中長大的孩子,喜歡爭吵

If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
恐懼中長大的孩子,常常憂慮

If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
憐憫中長大的孩子,容易自憐

If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
嘲笑中長大的孩子,個性羞怯

If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
猜忌中長大的孩子,容易嫉妒

If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
羞恥中長大的孩子,覺得罪惡

If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
鼓勵中長大的孩子,深具自信

If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
寬容中長大的孩子,學會耐性

If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
稱讚中長大的孩子,懂得感恩

If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
贊同中長大的孩子,學會關愛

If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
認可中長大的孩子,喜歡自己

If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
賞識中長大的孩子,目標明確

If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
分享中長大的孩子,慷慨大方

If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
誠實中長大的孩子,懂得體貼

If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
公正中長大的孩子,極富正義

If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
尊重中長大的孩子,懂得尊敬

If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
信賴中長大的孩子,不但信任他人也信任自己

If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.
友善中長大的孩子,不但愛他人也愛自己


自李開復,寫給家長的一封信上看到的一篇

很讚的詩.~共勉之~


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